Embracing Growth: 4 Essential Writing Insights from a Bali Retreat
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Last year, I participated in a transformative writing retreat in Bali, a dream experience for any aspiring writer.
Set in the spiritual core of Bali, Ubud, I spent an enriching week in an eco-friendly compound, mingling with around twenty other writers and honing my craft. Surrounded by vibrant tropical flora and fueled by rich Balinese coffee, I crafted my first poem, followed by a second and even a playful horror story featuring a sinister groundskeeper.
In the heart of Bali, I was immersed in creativity, learning invaluable lessons that have reshaped my writing journey. Seven months have passed since that retreat, a time filled with growth and reflection, especially during these pandemic days.
From my experience, I derived four crucial insights that can accelerate your development as a writer.
1. Connect with Inspiring Individuals
> “Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up.” > — Thomas J. Watson
This was my most significant takeaway from the retreat. The real catalyst for my writing improvement was not solely the writing workshops or seminars, no matter how beneficial they were. What truly elevated my skills was the community of fellow writers I found myself with.
As Jim Rohn aptly stated, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” This holds especially true for those pursuing unconventional careers in the arts.
At the retreat, I was in the presence of dedicated writers around the clock. We shared meals, discussing our favorite literature over buttered toast and strong coffee. Evenings were spent around a crackling fire, sipping cold Bintangs, fueled by our shared aspirations and creativity. It was a time for storytelling, laughter, and forging deep connections.
Mark Twain once noted, > “Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great.”
As I grow older, I increasingly appreciate the necessity of surrounding myself with uplifting friends. Our success is often influenced more by our environment than we realize.
2. Cultivate a Supportive Environment
> “It starts with this: put your desk in the corner, and every time you sit down there to write, remind yourself why it isn’t in the middle of the room. Life isn’t a support system for art. It’s the other way around.” > — Stephen King, On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft
Imagine this: a sunny afternoon where you're shielded from the heat in a cozy gazebo, sitting cross-legged with writers from across the globe, each focused on their craft. The serene atmosphere is complemented by gentle yoga music and the sounds of nature, creating the perfect writing environment.
Now contrast that with being at home, where unexpected visitors disrupt your peace, turning your creative space into chaos. The noise makes it nearly impossible to concentrate, and your writing ambitions are stifled.
As writers, we must strive to create an environment conducive to creativity. While we may not always have the luxury of an ideal setting, we can still make small adjustments to enhance our surroundings.
Turn off distractions, choose a quiet location, and establish a writing routine. As Faulkner wisely said, > “I only write when inspiration strikes. Fortunately, it strikes at nine every morning.”
It’s essential to prioritize your writing. Professionals dedicate their time to their craft, while amateurs may view discipline as a burden. However, true artists understand that discipline is the framework for their masterpieces.
3. Experiment with Diverse Writing Styles
> “Good painting is the kind that looks like sculpture.” — Michelangelo
During the retreat, I had the privilege of learning from six experienced writers, each bringing a unique perspective. Their expertise ranged from novel writing to screenwriting, poetry, and beyond. Initially, I was mostly drawn to novel writing, but I found myself captivated by the poetry and screenplay workshops.
Rather than feeling overwhelmed by options, exploring different styles broadened my skills. As Maslov stated, > “When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.”
Limiting yourself to a single writing approach can stifle your creativity. Embrace various styles and find inspiration in their blend.
4. Invest in Your Craft
> “If a man empties his purse into his head, no one can take it away from him. An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest.” — Benjamin Franklin
In a recent interview, Conor McGregor revealed his astonishment at LeBron James’s annual investment in his body—$1.5 million! This highlights a common trait among masters of their craft: their willingness to invest in themselves.
Top athletes hire elite coaches, successful entrepreneurs seek mentors, and top-tier armies invest heavily in technology to stay ahead. To be the best writer you can be, you need to adopt the same mindset.
Spending over $2000 on the retreat was a significant decision for me, but it turned out to be the best investment I ever made.
Billionaire Warren Buffet once stated, > “Ultimately, there’s one investment that supersedes all others: Invest in yourself.”
Investing in yourself yields the highest returns. It’s an investment that cannot be taken away from you, as it nurtures your growth as an artist.
So, don’t hesitate to put your resources into your writing journey. It may take time to see results, but remember that patience is key.
Invest in yourself, and take your first step toward mastery.
See you at the summit.